Why does a repayment count only when the receiver confirms it?
A repayment between people who share bills should count only when the receiver confirms it. A claim is one person's word, and a balance must not move on one person's word.
By Rizwan
Between people who share bills, a repayment should count only when the person receiving it confirms it, because a claim is one person's word and a balance must not move on one person's word. If saying "I paid" were enough, anybody could make their own debt disappear by saying so.
That holds for a notebook on the fridge, a spreadsheet or an app. Whoever keeps the tab records who paid whom. The people do the paying.
What happens when someone says they paid?
A repayment that has been claimed and not yet confirmed should change nothing in the tab, except that it shows as waiting. Saying you paid is a request to change the record, and settling up takes both people.
- You pay the person, however you normally would.
- You say that you paid.
- They say they got it. Only then does the balance move.
Why is one person's word not enough to clear a debt?
One person's word is not enough to clear a debt, because then the person who owes would be the one deciding the debt is gone.
Between the claim and the answer, the true state of things is that one person says money moved and the other has not agreed. So an honest tab shows a payment waiting to be confirmed, not a balance that quietly shifted.
What do the numbers show before and after the receiver confirms?
A claimed repayment leaves every number where it was, and a confirmed one clears the payer's debt and the receiver's credit together.
Ahmed pays Rs 3,000 for something he, Bilal and Sana share. Each share is Rs 1,000, so Ahmed is owed Rs 2,000, and Bilal and Sana owe Rs 1,000 each. Then Bilal says that he paid Ahmed Rs 1,000.
- While the repayment is only claimed, Ahmed is still owed Rs 2,000, Bilal still owes Rs 1,000 and Sana owes Rs 1,000.
- When Ahmed says he got it, Ahmed is owed Rs 1,000, Bilal owes nothing and Sana still owes Rs 1,000.
A part-payment follows the same rule. Pay Rs 500 of Rs 1,200, and once it is confirmed, Rs 700 is still to go.
What if the receiver says the money never arrived?
When the receiver says the money never arrived, the repayment is not counted, and the amount is still owed. In the example, if Ahmed says he did not get Bilal's Rs 1,000, Ahmed is still owed Rs 2,000 and Bilal still owes Rs 1,000.
A denied claim is not one that is "not yet true". It has been denied, and counting it would be taking the side of the person who made it. The fair thing is to tell that person what was said: that the other person says they did not get the money. Those are the receiver's words. They do not say that the person who claimed is wrong.
What if the receiver never answers?
A claim that nobody answers stays a claim, and the amount stays owed. Nobody else can confirm a repayment on the receiver's behalf, because an unanswered claim is not a payment.
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